My life's adjective 1

So  dear friends, here we go. .. ... 

I was admitted in a hospital in my home town Amravati, a district place in Maharashtra India. This was because I had a severe brain hemorrhage while driving my car.

 It was a silent place. Not a single vehicle on the road. One side of the road was rocky Mountain and the other side there was a deep valley. The road was zigzag. Speed of my car was quite controllable. My wife Ruth, that time would be, because we were not married that time. It was merely our second meeting. She learnt that something was wrong with me as I was finding difficult to drive. I was sweating although the atmosphere was pleasant and above that the air conditioner in the car was on. We had a teeth skin escape when a huge truck cross passed our car. The car hit the truck very slightly and the back view mirror of driver side of my car was broken. Ruth thought I was drunk as the car was going more towards the driver side. 

I understood something was going wrong with me. I could feel the numbness in my right hand fingers. Even I could feel that  my right leg which controls the accelerator and clutch was losing the strength. 

God is so good to me. I immediately stopped the car, put the car's engine off. The car was still in gear. I pulled up the hand breaks. In no time I learnt I couldn't move my both right limbs had become senseless, no strength, difficulty in speaking. Ruth, instead of getting scared started praying loudly. 

She was helpless. She continuously kept praying that the Lord sends a help miraculously.

 Suddenly, she saw a car coming from behind. The driver of that car was blowing horn asking for side. The driver was very angry as I wasn't giving him side neither moved my car an inch. He got down of his car and came to see why I was not giving him side. He had come with full of anger to fight with me but as soon as he saw the fact, he cooled down. He saw Ruth weeping and begging him for help. 

That driver was not an ordinary man but a class one government officer. Learning the seriousness of the matter, he immediately ran to his car, asked his friend to drive his car. He pulled me out from my driving seat, told Ruth to sit back holding my head on her lap. The officer himself drove my car and took us to a hospital which was 20 kms away from where I had stopped the car before getting unconscious. 

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I was first there diagnosed with severe brain hemorrhage and after first aid immediately shifted to Amravati, my home town's hospital, "ZENITH HOSPITAL"  which is one of the best hospitals in Amravati. 

Both my younger brothers, relatives and friends were already there. As soon as the ambulance fetching me to Zenith Hospital reached the hospital both my younger brothers rushed to the ambulance to see me. Both were crying. God is good all the time. When I reached Zenith Hospital I had come to my senses but found that I was unable to speak. 

 

I saw my brothers were crying. They were pretending they aren't but I'm their elder brother. With a sign of my hand I wanted to make them sure that I was fine and they need not worry but second shock for me was I couldn't lift up my hand. In all this, poor Ruth's position was awkward as she knew nobody there. She was with me all the time. I was at ease that at least once I had introduced Ruth to both my brothers and already told them that Ruth and I will be getting married soon. 

I was admitted, all the formalities of the hospital were done. After CT scan it was clear to the doctors that I had a very severe brain hemorrhage and there were least probabilities of my survival. "Wait and watch", they said. 

According to doctors, 72 hours were crucial for me. Ruth is a strong believer. She immediately knelt down and kept praying for my life. After 72 crucial hours they said 48 more hours then 24, and at last they told Ruth and my brothers that I was out of danger then. 

 

This is me before hemorrhage  

This is how I looked after brain hemorrhage  

More to come.....

 

A little improved after a few days. 

MY DARLING FRIENDS

One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.   

Proverbs 18:24 (Bible)

Friendship is really one of the greatest gift bestowed upon us from God. In our friends we find trusted companions who know us, love us and care for us no matter who we are and what we are, irrespective to our religion, caste, financial status.Our friends are the ones who get us through rough time. They always have right words for us. They very often come to us with compassion. 

 My school mates my strength:-

Pramod Ingale, Javed Memon, Prassanjit Sharma,Dr.Shailesh Barabde, Sushil Kedia, Hitesh Kedia, Deepak Thakkar, Prassana Gaikwad,Abhay Khobragade, Bittu Nanda, Ajay Deulkar, Devendra Dhumale, Rahul Gawai, Deep Verma, Vipin Bahl, Adv. Jaywant Ghurde, Adv. Mehroz Pathan, Afroz Pathan, Alex Philips, Dr.Anant Phate, Dr.Amir Riyaz, Dr. Ghulaxe, Dr. Rizwan, Gajendra Tiwari, Gajendra Deshmukh, Dr. Sohail Bari, Jai, Peddy, Lalit Baheti, Manish Kale, Munish Kedia, Naim Khan Pharmacist, Nirmal David, Nirmal David, Nirmal Indurkar, Rajiv Bajaj, Raju Ganorkar, Ravindra Kale, Romharsh Bujruk, Sandesh Manwatkar, Sanjay Korde, Shabbir Rasul, Shyam Dhote, Tanveer, Umakant Rodge, Virendra Jain, Yunus, Bipin Zamre, Nikhil Dakshindas, Rahul Bang, Manoj Jaiswal, Deepak Bhadange, Deepak Dahane, Swapnil Singhai, Vikrant, Manish Chandak, Ravi Panchgam, Huzefa Sabir, Mahendra Bhansali, Ravi Ambulkar, Kundan Pande, Pralay Oza, had literally given duty in the hospital abiding all the rules and regulations of the hospital. Many friends from the above list personally were not present though, were with me in prayers. many live in other towns, states, far away countries. 

Saying thanks to my darling friends would be their insult. I owe my life to you my dear friends

I must not forget mentioning names of my darlig brothers in Christ from USA, "Rev. Gerald Higdon, Brother Scott Ohms and a sister Jan Hummel"

"O' TASTE AND SE THAT THE LORD IS GOOD"

Psalm 34:8 (Bible)

God is so good. He is always gracious to me. He is kind and loving. God had a plan for me that I couldn't understand. I always was a confused kind of character. Always in a dilemma, whether this or that, this or that.    

More to come about my friends........Keep reading.................................